恋愛と結婚は真反対?

婚活

結婚・・・というより

先ず「恋愛がしたい」

と仰る40代女性がいます。

 

 

恋愛と結婚での感情体験は

真反対かもしれません。

 

 

 

恋愛で体験できる感情は

ドキドキハラハラの『不安定さ』

結婚での感情体験は揺るぎないホッとする『安定さ』

 

 

わたしたちはすぐに無いものねだりをする生き物なので

結婚したいけど

『先ずは恋愛をしてから結婚したい』と思うのかもしれません。

 

 

『安定』を求めてはいるが

『不安定』も体験したい・・・のね(笑)

 

 

すぐに安定しちゃうのは

『ツマラナイ』という事です(^-^;

 

婚活においては

あまりドキドキハラハラするような『不安定さ』は

期待できません。

それより

新たな領域の体験へと突入するわけです。

 

 

 

しかも

自分の事だけ考えていれば良かった所へ

相手の事や

相手のご家族、ご親戚の事まで

考える事は増え

自分の範囲・領域が格段に広がります。

 

 

だからこそ

人間的成長をせざるを得ないのだと思います

あなたの器が広がる

言ってみれば

かなり大人になります。

 

 

その体験を

ご自分の人生に取り入れて生きるか

それとも取り入れずに独りを愉しむか?

必然的に独りを愉しんでいれば孤独感が大きくなる事もありますし

逆に結婚して安定すれば時には不自由を感じる事だってあります

 

 

物事には

表と裏があり陰と陽でできています

表裏一体ですから

どちらを選んでも良い事も悪い事もあります

 

 

ですから

優劣もないし

どちらでも良くて

自分はどういう人生を歩みたいか?

それだけですね!

(^_^)

 

 

 

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