愛される人の最大の魅力!それは・・・

仕事でもプライベートでも

最近はSNS上でも

色んな人をお見掛けしますが

 

 

愛される人の最大の魅力

それは・・・

 

 

誰よりも

その人が自分を愛している・・・って事だなって思うんです

 

 

【自分を愛する】と一言で言っても

分かりにくいかも知れませんが

先ず

どんな自分も否定しない・・・という事

どんな自分も受け入れる・・・という事

そして

どんな自分も赦す(ゆるす)事

その「どんな自分も」とは?

本当の自分

ありのままの自分

素の自分の事です。

 

 

誰かの目を意識した自分や

認められたい、褒められたい等の

誰もが持つ

『承認欲求』を満たす為に取り繕った自分ではなく

善も悪も併せ持った

そのままの自分です

 

 

世間で言われている

「ダメな部分」や「出来ない部分」を持つ自分を

そのまま受け入れて認めて赦している人は

他人のそういう部分を

同じように認め赦し受け入れる事が出来る人です

 

 

「~でなければいけない」

「~するべき」という

無意識層に根付いている自分ルールが多い人は

自他共に許せない事が多い為

人とのコミュニケーションも難しくなります

 

 

他人はさておき

せめて素の自分を愛してあげましょう!

そうすると自然に他人への愛も芽生えます。

 

 

自分を愛せるようになると

不思議と

素の自分に合う人とのご縁が増えて来ます

素の自分に寄ってきたご縁ですから

お互いがなんとなく

「一緒に居て楽だな~」って感じるんです♡

 

 

ね!(^_-)-☆

自然とそういうご縁になりやすいです!

 

 

 

今日から今から

先ずは

等身大の自分を良しとしよう(^^)/

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