子供が欲しい人へ

子供を持つという夢の為に結婚したって

全然イイと思うのです

 

 

でも

子供が欲しい・・・

だから結婚しなきゃ・・・という意識で婚活していると

上手く行かない場合が多いです

全てとは言いません

「多い」というだけでね

 

 

男性の立場からみて有りがちなのが

この年齢では子供は産めないのではないか?と

そういう視点でお相手を判断してしまう事です

悪気はなかったとしても

その意識でお相手探しをしていても

しあわせな結婚生活からはズレてしまう事もあります

 

 

そして女性が自ら

この年齢では子供は産めないかも知れないと決めつけ

その事で何か引け目を感じたり

劣等感に苛まれたり

自己価値を低めてしまう事を懸念しています

 

 

劣等感や自己価値の低い状態

または

どうせわたしなんて・・・という「拗ね」や

選ばれるわけがないなどという潜在意識

更には

しあわせになる事に無意識に抵抗している

なんていう状態で活動している場合

なかなか良いお相手に出逢えない

交際が続かない

楽しくない

そういう方が

実はとても多いです

婚活もビジネスもダイエットも一緒で

そもそも

『どういう意識でその案件に携わっているのか?』がとても大事で

その意識で結果が決まってしまうと言っても過言ではないくらい

あなたの

普段何気なく持っている『意識』が起こる現実を創造しています

 

 

それならば

自分が普段どんな意識でそれに取り組んでいるかを

知る事がとても大事になってきますね

 

 

男女共に

子供を産めるかどうか?という不安や心配を元に

婚活をしていないか?

もしも子供が産めない、持てない場合

その自分に対してどういう思いを持っているのか?

そんな自分でも許せてあげられるのか

それでもしあわせになれる自分であるのかどうか?

今この場で

他にも

「こうでないとしあわせではない」などと

条件を付けていないか?

自分にも他人にもね

 

 

そういう所を内観してみて

その条件を緩ませてみてください

誰でもイイわけではないのは分かりますが

自他共にへの条件を減らすだけでも

生き方は楽になります

 

 

そういう意識の見直しや意識の変革が

自分で出来ると

現在の婚活も

その後の結婚生活や子育ても

きっと楽しいものにしていけるでしょう♪

 

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